Hypnotized
64What is hypnosis?
Hypnosis is a field less traveled by ordinary people and is quite a draw to watch someone get hypnotized. There is a basic interest in everyone in hypnotizing, it is used for self-improvement purposes, to take care of any undesired habit or for psychological insight. There is an interesting and entertainment side of hypnosis too. A lot of people learn to hypnotize just for the sake of fun. And we always are eager to see others getting hypnotized in front of our eyes. There are questions in our mind whether the hypnosis process really works or is it just eyewash. This curiosity to know more about hypnotizing makes us spectator to such shows. If you do not believe in hypnosis and think it is just eyewash, wait till one of your friends or family members get hypnotized in front of your eyes. You would definitely believe in this science which is quite an art!
Why use hypnosis technique?
Hypnosis is considered to be a state of consciousness as well as relaxation simultaneously. When your mind is relaxed and is in attentive state you can pose a few questions and get the answers. Ideally it is the professional hypnotist who should be doing the hypnosis. But when you try out hypnosis with some practice on yourself it is called self-hypnosis. There are a lot of misconceptions about hypnotizing, people tend to believe that when you are being hypnotized you have to give up on yourself completely and you become a puppet in the hands of the hypnotizer. Although it is not at all true, the choice is completely yours and you can withdraw at any point of time. According to an article from business week, “A hypnotist can’t make you do anything you don’t really want to do. There is nothing spooky about it.” And if you are able to use hypnosis well it is quite entertaining and helpful too. Self-hypnosis is a great tool for self improvement. It is quite rejuvenating like meditation and you can use it for your personal development. If you are looking to use this technique for self improvement you must take professional help in the beginning. You will need to be very patient and need a lot of practice.
Learn to hypnotize
Learning the skills of hypnotization is not very difficult if you have clear instructions and follow them properly. You can use your hypnotizing skills to impress people at parties or if you are too serious about it and want to make it your profession, there is no stopping you! There are a number of help books on hypnotizing techniques that you can refer to, or you can surf the net and get a lot of information on hypnosis techniques and uses. Your ability to hypnotize can make you the centre of attention at any gathering and you may be tempted to things that are not so good. Always avoid making things sour, try to remain at the fun side of hypnosis. People who get hypnotized by you will anyway learn about what you did to them during hypnosis, so do the good things like helping them quit smoking or inculcating some good habits in them rather than the bad ones. Make the experience funny and memorable to the person who trusts you and lets you try this skill on him or her. The best way to hypnotize your subject would be the conversational style hypnosis, this way you are not coming across as someone who is trying too hard like saying the lines, you are getting sleepy, etc.
Conversational hypnotizing
The conversation has to be affirmative and positive. The tone should remain usually soft and not too harsh or authoritarian. Once you have shared your ideals with the subject, let him relax and bring him out of the state gradually by counting up. This way you would achieve what you started to do without causing any stress to the subject. The best way to hypnotize someone conversationally is to get into a conversation and build a rapport with the person. The next step would be to put the seed of your thought into their mind. This way the subject will not find you too bossy or someone who wants to take advantage of them. They should not feel as if they are following orders which would make hypnotism more obvious, rather they should feel as if they are behaving in such a manner because they themselves want to. They will start nurturing your thought as their own and you reach your target without much effort. There is a lot more to hypnotism that what meets the eye. It’s not just about taking control or being the boss. It is a great tool that you can use and help your near and dear ones to get rid of their undesirable addictions and habits.






